Texas Man Burns 67-Year-Old Girlfriend With Hot Soup for “Talking Too Much,” Say Police

A Texas man is behind bars after allegedly pouring hot soup on his 67-year-old girlfriend, causing third-degree burns, all because—according to police—he claimed she was “talking too much.”

The disturbing incident unfolded in late February at an apartment in Waco, where 35-year-old Alexander Alton McDavid was living with the elderly woman. According to authorities, the woman was heating up soup in the microwave when an argument broke out. As she retrieved the soup, McDavid reportedly became so agitated that he slapped the bowl out of her hand, causing the steaming liquid to splash across her shoulder and forearm.

She was left in serious pain, with burns severe enough to require medical treatment. But shockingly, she didn’t call the police right away. It wasn’t until she visited a Social Security office days later that she finally had the opportunity—and the courage—to speak up.

“He said I was talking too much”

The victim told police that McDavid got angry because she was talking too much, and that’s when he allegedly lashed out. This wasn’t the first time he had hurt her, either. She described a year-long relationship filled with escalating abuse—choking incidents, threats, and fear. She had stayed silent, possibly out of fear or not knowing where to turn.

Sadly, this kind of silence is common in abusive relationships. Many victims of domestic violence don’t report it until the abuse becomes unbearable or someone finally notices.

A Long Pattern of Violence

McDavid’s criminal history paints a troubling picture. Police records show he has previous convictions for family violence in 2017 and again in 2021. This latest attack seems to be part of a pattern rather than an isolated incident.

After the woman came forward, police arrested McDavid. He now faces a list of serious charges, including:

• Injury to an elderly person

• Assault causing bodily injury

• Continuous family violence

• Resisting arrest

• Terroristic threats against a household member

He is currently being held at McLennan County Jail with his bond set at $130,000.

Victim Left Without Help

One of the most heartbreaking aspects of this case is that the woman was essentially trapped. She didn’t have a phone or car, so even after suffering painful burns, she wasn’t able to seek help right away. It wasn’t until she had a reason to leave the house for a Social Security appointment that she managed to tell someone what happened.

That delay could have made her injuries worse and shows just how dangerous isolation can be for victims of abuse.

This Isn’t Just One Story

As shocking as this case is, it’s sadly not unique. Domestic violence involving hot liquids or boiling food has happened before—and it’s happening across the globe:

• In South Africa, a man was arrested for stabbing his partner and pouring boiling water on her.

• In India, a man reportedly murdered his girlfriend and tried to dispose of her remains using a pressure cooker.

• In another Indian case, a husband poured hot tea on his wife in anger after she sent him to rehab.

These aren’t just horror stories—they’re real people, real relationships, and real pain. And they highlight the need for stronger support systems for victims of domestic violence.

What Can Be Done?

This incident in Waco raises the same question we keep asking: How can we better protect vulnerable individuals in abusive situations? More shelters, better access to mental health and emergency services, and public awareness can help. But above all, encouraging victims to speak out—and ensuring they have somewhere to go when they do—can save lives.

Closing Thoughts

The 67-year-old woman hurt in this case is still recovering from her injuries, but she’s also taken the brave first step in seeking justice. Her story is a powerful reminder of the importance of listening, believing victims, and providing them the support they need to escape dangerous situations.

As for McDavid, he’ll soon face a judge and jury, and potentially, the consequences of what police are calling a brutal act of domestic violence.