Devastation in Duncan (73533) : Beloved Oklahoma Mother Killed in Suspected Murder-Suicide – FAMILY SHOCKED

Duncan (73533) – The community of Duncan, Oklahoma, is reeling after a well-known and beloved mother of three was found dead alongside a male companion in what police are investigating as a murder-suicide. Authorities were called to a home on North 13th Street early Monday morning after a family member discovered the two victims inside with gunshot wounds. The woman, identified as Ashley Cole, 35, was described by friends and family as “full of life, nurturing, and the heart of her home.”

According to preliminary findings from the Stephens County Sheriff’s Office, investigators believe the man — who had a known history of volatile behavior and was reportedly in a relationship with Cole — shot her before turning the weapon on himself. A handgun was recovered at the scene. The couple had no prior domestic violence reports filed with local police, but family members say there were recent signs of controlling behavior and emotional abuse.

Ashley’s three children, who were not home at the time, are now with relatives. Community members are gathering to grieve and demand answers — and better protections — for domestic abuse victims in rural Oklahoma.

Key Facts

• BREAKING: Oklahoma woman, 35, killed in suspected murder-suicide

• IMPACT: Two deceased; three children left behind

• OFFICIAL SOURCE: “Our hearts break for this family.” – Sheriff Wayne McKinney, Stephens County

• ACTION: Donate to verified GoFundMe set up for Ashley’s children’s care

Hyperlocal Impact

1. Precise Location:
   Duncan (73533) – North 13th Street near Plato Elementary School

2. Community Connection:
   “She helped everyone. She didn’t deserve this. We need to talk about DV more.”
   (Attribution: – Marlene Foster, owner of Hair Haven Salon)

Exclusive Angle

• WHY THIS MATTERS NOW:
  Oklahoma has one of the highest domestic violence death rates per capita in the U.S. This tragedy comes as rural support systems continue to be strained. The Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence says that nearly 1 in 3 requests for emergency shelter are turned away due to underfunding.

Update Log

•  7:00 AM: Deputies confirm weapon found next to male victim

•  9:00 AM: Ashley’s family issues public statement calling for DV awareness

• 11:15 AM: Candlelight vigil planned at Fuqua Park, Wednesday at 7 PM